Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Marriage Life

Had breakfast with old friends at coffeeshop nearby office this morning. Chatted about our interesting past, our old hairstyle, our old fashioned dress.. which is around 15 years ago, that moment we are only in our 20's, energetic and fun..

We are all having the same complaints...Everyone agreed that their husband are not as loving, caring, patience & adorable like before. Everything turns the other way round.. During the dating time ah, everything also ok, everything also can... even if we unreasonably ask for the moon, also ok... Now ah, try lah! They will surely ask us, if we have lost our mind?... Who's fault actually.. Is it b'cos wife not patience, caring, loving enough that causes the husband,lost their patience/love on us?? Or is it b'cos the husband thinks that wife should compromise?? For me, relationship is a both way traffic, right? both parties should contribute..and women definitely needs more attention, love and care, even after married..

Thats why, I rather remain single now.. I really don't have the confidence to involve in relationship anymore, you may says that I am pessimistic, but I have came across 2 broken relationship, if only 1 party is contributing, its not gonna work at all..

U agreed?

8 comments:

Leu said...

yeee...i dun agree !!!

y blame the man for not be as gentle as before? but did woman ask themselves whether they change too? which affect the hubby to change as well?

i always think problems occured from both parties...not jst one...

nothing offend !!!

jen said...

totally agree, it's all about give & take. no point if you're the only one who contribute for the relationship.

i've seen many broken relationships around me. just last week my neighbor got hit by the husband. they used to be quite loving when they first got married. men of these days kinda freak me out.

eugene said...

we all must learn on how to love, how to be less selfish, how to make a relationship funny enough that both will long to be together.

trust love

Joanna Tang said...

Leu:yes,u might be right,problem occured from both parties,but.. can't deny men used to be gentle the moment during dating,after married.. everything turns cold lake boh!

Jen:We both nasib malang lah!Hopefully,we'll be able to meet our Mr Right again ya(If not,me wanna be nun liao lah!hehe). Let's pray hard together..

Eugene:Ya,to keep the fire burning ^_^

Josephine said...

cant clap with single hand.
so i agree...

Merryn said...

Joanne, I hope good things will come your way one day and make you believe in love and marriage again. Good luck and take care.

Joanna Tang said...

Josephine:thanks thanks for ur support.. hehe!

Merryn:I wish too..

J.H said...

I hope you'll find your happiness in relationship one day Joanne. It's not necessarily come from our spouse, it can be from our parents or our children.