A moment of sadness

I suddenly got spanked by sadness this morning. Out of the blue, I cried my lung out again.. Why are women so sentimental? why can't we be more manly and conscious? I try to keep myself busy and occupy, I know I'll breakdown again, if I let to have free time.

I never love a man this deeply and whole heartedly before... I love him more than my own life.. I know if he doesn't wants me, nothing can makes him stay. I know I have to let go... to start on with a new life... I know time can heal, but the scar will forever be there... as he has hurted me deeply.. Its really hard to forgive and forget.. I know I have to try really hard..

I received an email from Jo, I wish to share with all my ladies friends.

WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN!
[1] If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
[2] If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
[3] Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
[4] Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
[5] Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
[6] Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
[7] If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be "friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
[8] Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
[9] The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
[10] Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
[11] Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
[12] Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
[13] Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
[14] You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
[15] Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
[16] He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
[17] Never let a man define who you are.
[18] Never borrow someone else's man.
[19] If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
[20] A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
[21] All men are NOT dogs.
[22] You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two- way street.
[23] You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
[24] You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary .....not supplementary.
[25] Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
[26] Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
[27] Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
[28] Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
[29] Keep him in your radar but get to know others.